It
gives me great joy to write once again on this Love topic; I can remember
several times I tried to put up something on this but, it seemed not to be
coming fort; finally I have something to present to us.
I am trusting on the Holy Spirit to
direct this study as we go further on this topic.
Love has been defined in so many ways
and this definition has consequently resulted in the overall abuse of the term
Love; what love means to Mr. A is different to what Mr. B sees love as, Mrs. A
sees love entirely different from what Mr. A&B takes love to be; while Mrs
B will believe that love is not in existence.
Miss B on the other hand thinks of
love in an extreme manner thus perverted while Master A will rather call it plessure.
People of different tribes and cultures views love in different ways and thus classify
love in accordance to their culture. These have given a rise in my heart to
examine once again what exactly is love.
In carrying out this assignment
questions has developed in my heart. This question includes:
·
Is Love super-cultural?
·
Should love been seen as the same
everywhere no matter the tribe or culture?
·
What is exactly love?
Love is super-cultural and thus should
be seen in the same way in any culture or tribe but to understand the
super-culturality of love and its exact meaning, we consider various things
that love has been likened to that it is not.
Love is not when you have sex, so many
people have been made to believe that love is sex; this believe has equally
made them to say things like this:
a.
I love you and you love me so let
us have sex
b.
Love without sex is no love
c.
If you truly love me then you should not
even wait for me to ask for sex before you give it to me talk more of rejecting
when I eventually asked.
d.
Sex is made for two people who are in
love
None of the above statement is true;
sex is not something you get when you are in ‘love’ neither is it what you use
to seal love. Sex is not just made for two people who are in love but two
people who are in love and have been legally married. Sex has never been permitted
outside of the fore walls of marriage.
The
reason why so many people in the world live a life of sex outside marriage is
simply because they do not know what love is which is as a result of their
impure heart.
Love
is not when you give alms to people, 1 Cor. 13:3 talk of alms giving without
love; this equally means that one can actually give alms without loving. Alms giving
is not conjugate to love.
It is
not also love when you chose to be punished for someone else’s offence for the person
to be set free.
Love
flows from a heart (thoughts, motive, emotions, and feelings) that is pure this
is because love itself is pure. The reason why alms and costly sacrifice like
paying the price for someone else’s offence will be considered not love is the
motive (heart).
Back
then in high school, I and my colleagues do render help to our female
colleagues, the reason for this help is not because we love them or because we
want to really help, but simply because we wanted to be nice so that we can
easily be considered for what will call love relationship although I have
always been unlucky then. We actually
did help these young ladies but not with a pure motive (heart) thus cannot be
said to be love.
Several times, you have done similar things
like giving a young lady standing on the road side a lift after which you
collect her contact and start calling for a date. You have given a good and
edifying advice to a young lady just to draw her close to yourself in other to
have a test of her.
Love
is the state of a pure heart (thoughts, motive, emotions, and feelings); a pure
heart (thoughts, motive, emotions, and feelings) is a heart (thoughts, motive,
emotions, and feelings) that has being sanctified with the word of God, a heart
(thoughts, motive, emotions, and feelings) that is willed to the will of God. Thus
a heart (thoughts, motive, emotions, and feelings) that does whatever he do
with a good purpose and intentions which is willed to the purpose of God. A heart
that is ever ready to do the uncomfortable just because it makes the Holy
Spirit confortable.
Love
is what you display when your heart (thoughts, motive, emotions, and feelings) has
accommodated the word of God and is being directed by the Holy Spirit who can
only be present in a life that has accepted Jesus Christ as His Lord and
saviour. Such hearts will render help to people not for any selfish purpose but
to extend the love which God has given them.
LOVE HYMN
Love is patient, love is kind, it is not envious.
Love does not brag, it is not puffed up.
It is not rude, it is not self-serving, it is not
easily angered or resentful.
It is not glad about injustice, but rejoices in
the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things, hopes
all things, endures all things.
Love never ends.1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Remember,
God is Love therefore Love is the presence of God in your Heart (thoughts, motive,
emotions, and feelings). If you do not have God in you, you cannot say that you
truly love.
Till next time we
meet, I remain your Pastor and Friend
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